How far does the Grace of God really extend? Do murderers get it? Rapists? Child molesters? How does it work?
If you're like me at all, then the above categories of people seem a long way from me. I'm not like "those" people. So when I think of grace I think of it applying to more "reasonable" sins like pride or fear or greed--sins like mine. But when it comes to the big stuff, I tend to want to think in terms of justice. I want murderers to get caught and punished and God to focus on them so I can just kinda get by unnoticed. And as long as my sins stay small enough, then I won't deserve God's anger or his justice (Shew!!!).
Is that how it really works? No. God's mercy extends to everyone who chooses to have Jesus come into their lives. Big sins and small ones. Even though I might not like it, child molesters and murderers are invited too. If Jesus is in their lives, then Grace extends even to them. What a concept?!
One last idea
If I changed lenses and began looking from God's perspective I wouldn't see big or small sins. I would only see those who loved me and those who didn't. Either you're in, or you're out. If you're in, I will lavish all of my grace upon you no matter how much you don't deserve it. If you're out, it doesn't matter how hard you try to be good, grace doesn't work for you. You're on your own.
Phillip yancey summarized this idea for his book, "What's So Amazing About Grace," when he said, "There is nothing we can do to make God love us more, and nothing we can do to make God love us less."
Either you have grace or you don't.